There is nil more of import than deriving independency to a adolescent. Me. merely like every other adolescent couldn’t delay until I turned 16 so I could derive independency. What I didn’t understand was that the errors I had made in the yesteryear would forestall my parents from giving me the freedom and independency I deserved. The errors I had made in the yesteryear stopped my parents from giving me the permission to drive by myself when I got my licence.

I turned 16 on January 2. 2013 and got my licence on January 5. 2013. Just like everyone other adolescent I couldn’t wait to drive by myself and be independent until my parents told me I have to wait two months and derive their trust. I was upset more than of all time. I didn’t cognize how to confront my equal and state them because of the errors I have made in the yesteryear. I have to wait two months until I can drive independently.

Matter of fact. I got in problem the twenty-four hours after my birthday. all because I decided to make something really foolish out of choler I had towards my parents which merely got brought me more suffering. I personally think the older I get. the more errors I make. I’m positive I’m non the lone adolescent who goes through this stage. A twosome of yearss subsequently. I understood I had to pay the effects for my folly and errors. This smart idea merely lasted until two yearss ago when I got in problem once more all because of a misinterpretation between my parents and me. This clip it was my parents’ mistake.

I believe that adolescents aren’t ever incorrectly or making something incorrect. Some times it can be the parent/guardians mistake every bit good. My parents and I have learned the stricter parents are. the more your kid will travel behind your dorsum and do incorrect things. Sometimes parents have to loosen up and speak to their kids. Parents have to understand their child’s ideas and alteration themselves harmonizing to the changing civilization.

Adolescents and kids hide things and ideas from their parents because they think they’ll get in problem for sharing their ideas. This is non true. Ever since I became “friends” with my parents. I’ve gained their trust. independency and found it easier to speak to them about everything. Adolescents. including myself largely think of their parents as their enemy merely because they try to protect you from the immorality around you. I wish I understood this awhile back so I wouldn’t have misled my parents. did things behind their dorsum and gotten in so much problem.

I most likely would’ve gained independency the twenty-four hours I turned 16. Yes my parents are a small over-protective and stricter than some parents but what I wasn’t able to see is that they have ever protected me and prevented me from acquiring harmed. But neither can I fault myself for desiring independency nor I blame my parents for being protective.

I have realized and learned a batch from this event that I thought was so atrocious and life stoping. But talking out of all candidly. I needed this to acknowledge the difference between right and incorrect. My household and I needed this to better understand each other. If I gained independence right when I turned 16. I would hold ne’er shared my ideas with my parents and I would’ve continued to make travel on the incorrect way. I’ve besides realized there is more to life when you turn 16 so merely deriving independency. With freedom comes more duty.