It’s astonishing how work forces ad adult females can be considered the same but yet be so really different. On the outside they may look alike- two eyes. two ears. a nose. oral cavity. custodies. and so on. but they could non be more different. So the expression goes. “men are from Mars and adult females are from Venus” . The inquiry is why though? Is it because of nature or because of raising?

One difference is that work forces are highly more aggressive than adult females due to higher testosterone degrees. It was believed that how your raise the kid and the function of society were the chief factors that determined the result as male or female. However. with the instance of David Reimer this proved to non be true. David was traveling through a everyday Circumcision when he was eight months old that went awfully incorrect. Doctors decided to turn him into a miss as an experiment. to turn out that transfering a sex was easy because raising determined their psychological makeup. However. today being 37 old ages old. the angry David is cogent evidence of how incorrect they were. He had a anguished childhood. and has had to travel through many surgeries to seek to derive back his manhood. The biological sex of a kid will ever predominate. now matter how they are raised.

Though aggression is due to testosterone in work forces. it is non the lone ground. The aggression in work forces is farther implied in he manner they are raised and how society teaches them to move. From childhood. male childs are taught to be tough- to “be a large boy” and non shout. They are taught that male childs should play athleticss like football. wrestle. and other violent athleticss. Work force relate to each other through physical interaction. For work forces. words are less of import in developing relationships ; they are all about taking action. Our society Teachs work forces to believe that “actions speak louder than words” . On the other manus. adult females do associate with words. One of the most of import things to a adult female in a relationship is being able to speak about jobs. Women care more about the ideas and feelings behind the action. Emotional familiarity. and intimacy. is the most of import end. Bing honest and open is what shows love.

Though the instance with David Reimer shows that you can’t alter the biological sex of a kid. a kid could pick up some features of the opposite sex. For illustration. if a miss. with multiple brothers. is raised by her male parent with no female parent figure about. things such as football and combat would be of more involvement to her. and she would be considered a ‘tomboy’ . She would desire to be one of the cats.

Work force and adult females are different in many more ways than the obvious physical 1s. I believe that the differences are both nature and raising. and that you can’t have one without the other. However. I do believe that a bulk of the difference depends on raising. due to the fact that society today has set so many criterions as how work forces and adult females should move.

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