The movie “The Story of Us” that we have watched last hebdomad gave me the full of penetrations and learned how hard a matrimony could be. This film was about the narrative of a twosome married for about 15 old ages and from their perfect matrimony. it about ends up to disassociate. They have two kids that through them they still pretend every bit good parents even if their relationship is non working any longer. They decided to direct their kids to a summer cantonment so they can get down their test separation before stating it to their childs.
In the terminal. because they still love each other and besides for the best of their kids. they had chosen to be strong and set aside all the abhorrence and hatred from them. Peoples may prosecute into matrimony thru assorted grounds. The bulk of it is normally because of legal and societal facets. But the world is that a individual is non merely associated to emotional or a feeling to person but besides it is the religious and spiritual facets that lead to marriage.
For me. a individual who entered into a relationship with person should be committed to the individual he loved so the partnership between them will be strong and the matrimony will be ageless. Marriage for me is non merely a formal contract or understanding of two individuals who love each other which is normally followed by a nuptials ceremonial. It is truly of import for me because it does non merely demo how relationship works but it is instituted and destined by God for the lasting relationship between a adult male and a adult female. My point of position towards relationship to a good matrimony is that it should non be developed harmonizing to our expectancy.
With the conformance of a hubby and married woman that are married. they should non be separated and will stand for every adversity that they will meet. As shown in the film. like what about happened to Ben and Katie Jordan in the movie was because of misinterpretations and the exchange of throbbing with each other. There are tonss of twosomes presents that encountered similar jobs like this. They besides run into a state of affairs that a twosome can non stand each other any longer which largely ends up to divorce.
Some of the twosomes may accommodate and take to remain what is ordained while thers may take to pip thing like separation or divorce. This movie had given me batch of penetrations on the positions of matrimony. I can state that this film made me realized that in order for a matrimony to work good it is of import that twosomes should larn how to accommodate and accept the love of their spouses despite of their unsimilarities. Peoples choose to get married the individual they like non merely because of feelings. fondness or similitude to their partner but because they fated their love to God and willingness to accept all the differences of their spouse.
I have learned that non all matrimony will take to lifelong relationship unless they truly love and vowed to each other. I besides recognized that non all relationships are perfect therefore we should go on ourselves to be loyal. devoted and still faithful to love 1s. This movie besides taught me on what we should make or the best thing to execute if a state of affairs happened in the matrimony life like this. Besides. we should larn how to attach to with others and to forgive and bury the errors of a individual you love which will direct into a good matrimony life.
